Real Men are secure enough to let their woman reach for the moon!

I constantly carry a broken heart at the state of women I meet every day of my life, my heart breaks at the fact that I see so many of our ladies give up on their dreams and simply sit home and not do anything! Hence the title growing called HW -“house wife” I know so many ladies that used to be very vibrant in so many churches and communities, that stopped ticking and being vibrant, because they met a man or got married! These are highly talented ladies that would have sold a million Copies of their music and would have been # 1 on the billboard charts. Talk about state house! some man out there has packed a brainy and intelligent woman in his little insecure hood, who is meant to be president of a country and there is a Lawyer out there packed and cooking Nshima 24/7, when she is suppose to be defending and standing up for justice of this country, come on! talk about that Fashion designer, that Lady with magic hands who is meant to be writing books that will bless generations to come and not forgetting that Multi- million dollar Mine CEO, I feel like screaming now! Yeah baby you can do that thing, you can own it… yet some of these ladies have given up coz they have hooked their destines to a very insecure Hunk, maybe some might have forgotten that you don’t marry or date a man because he has banana legs and six pack or he is the Hunk of the hood and you wanted to share in the temporary glory of the whole neighborhood saying she married the hunk of the hood, relationships and marriage is about destiny.
Just because a person is married does not mean their dreams die, it’s painful because our ladies are the victims of this, because they are the ones to submit. I wrote this note especially for my fellow men, to challenge and admonish, that we have a responsibility to make that woman shine and reach for the moon, to make sure she lives a more fulfilling life.
Look at those ladies owing and those making their way to their dreams, some men are intimidated to approach and connect with such type of ladies, because they feel she is indomitable, a secure man will not fear a lady who is doing well. Because you know you got something she doesn’t have, yes she is got the Gold and the fame! But something is missing.
Bring out the gold that is embedded in her, encourage and push her to go to school, to build up her business and help her to look S..Y and fine, don’t be afraid another man will take her away from you, you pray for her deeply and stand there as an intercessor that no devil will mess with her. God brings that woman into your life for a reason, not as a sexual object to conquer or something you release all your frustrations on. She is of value. Speak to her and inspire her, that’s why I strongly believe every man should be a motivation speaker. Please men let’s make this happen to our women, they have been down for too long, it’s time to lead them to that grave they buried their dreams and as a priest over her, speak to those dry dreams and let them live.
To my dear sisters we apologize for not doing the best to help you achieve your dreams and be what God called you to be. We are making a commitment to be the best.
To God’s real men! Within our strength it’s hard, but with God on our side we will do thing. Are you game? I am! And to those who have loosed their women already there is always more we can do to be the best and take it to another Level.

Steady Divine
Trainer, Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Leadership Strategist, Pastor, Motivational Speaker, Entrepreneur, Radio/ TV Host and Writer.